Interview (continued)

What do most aspiring leaders not have that keeps them from becoming leaders?

A good leader can hear the cries of his people and speak to them in a way that they understand and believe is true.  Once again, too many “non-leaders” are me-focused opposed to us-focused.

Can you give an example of a leader that “walks the walk” (and “talks the talk”)?

Well, I just saw Invictus so I’d say Nelson Mandela.  Unfortunately, this world’s government is very much populated with popular parties interested in their own self-interests.

What happens when a leader does not “walk the walk”?  Do they lose authenticity or become more authentic regarding their humanity?

I don’t like finding major flaws in our leaders.  Only the most basic flaws are acceptable.  As much as I loved Clinton, adultery is a major flaw.  I’d prefer my role models (and those that my son end up admiring) to be as flawless as possible.  Flaws may help some people relate, but flaws tend to exist because of bad choices.  I don’t like my heroes making bad choices, just dealing with bad situations admirably.

Do you believe anyone can be a leader?  Why?

I believe it begins at birth and how you are raised.  Some that overcome tremenduous struggle and hardships become the best leaders.  Some that are raised with endless love, support and resources are amazing leaders.  Some that grow up in a negative environment have a hardened heart and are terrible, hateful leaders.  Some grow up with silver spoons in their mouths and never learn what it takes to fight for something.  We are all products of our environment and that shapes our future selves.

What separates leaders from followers?

A leader speaks up even when he/she knows it may not be in their best interest, but in the best interest of others.  A follower speaks up after that person.